shift your paradigm

Transform Trauma

" 'Trickery, I am the face of trickery. Don't you know me?' said the Coyote, in a moment of truth. 'I only know my pain and sadness, what trickery is there in that?' said the Wounded Heart." Kaeleya Rayne


When the wounds run deep, and we feel betrayed, left, or lost, we may be both tricked into a life of disappointment, resentment and anger and tricked into believing any of it is real and inescapable. Our Authentic Selves begin to fade, and we begin to live in the shadow of our concerns for safety, protection, and becoming invisible.

We may feel we don't have any real power to right the wrongs of the Past. And we may feel victim to our own thoughts, to our Sorrow, and to our own fear based choices. The life we came here to live seems to shrink and shrink until we see nothing of the sun, hear nothing of the birds and feel nothing of the Mother beneath our feet.

We call this living in the shadow of the Past, we find her in the subconscious mind, and she is a powerful force of nature.

The emotional mind, and the Sorrowed mind, live in the subconscious. And it is from this powerful subconscious mind that our inner reality is created. This inner reality creates a vibrational level or frequency that is expressed out into the universe and returned to us in the form of our outer reality. Like a boomerang effect, we are seemingly magnetized to get more of the same. We call this the Law of Attraction.

Here, in the emotional mind, we can have a powerful ally that magnetizes us effortlessly to the life of our dreams, or one that crushes us with default coping patterns designed to support our limiting beliefs. Beliefs that limit us perpetuate our patterns of withhold, disconnection and protection. We may also deeply believe that the universe somehow forgot to listen to our dreams and prayers, or that we are destined to be unfulfilled and unloved.

We are always a vibrational match to what we see in our outer reality.

And herein lies the rub, we use this outer reality to provide proof that we are right, that we are not worthy, that we are not valued, and that we are seemingly stuck in this never ending cycle of lost dreams and frustrating confusion. And so, until we draw back the covers to re-access our Authentic Selves and align our beliefs with our Heart's Inner Wisdom, we keep on vibrating at the same level. And we keep on providing a match for the life of our past, a past often still alive and well within us and our core held beliefs.

It is my deepest heart that offers you a way out of this cycle of frustration and loss. There is a way to honour your Sorrow, to uncover the patterns that bind you, to open to your Authentic Self, and to connect deeply with your Heart's Inner Wisdom.

I offer to stand with you and guide you as you build a bridge to the life that supports you and answers the call to liberate your Sorrowed and Wounded Past.

It is my deepest belief that this life we live is a blessed journey, one of magical opportunities for the evolution of the very soul that carries us. Open to it as such and free yourself of the burden of making events mean anything other than a calling to go deeper into discovery and alignment with your Heart's Inner Wisdom and guidance.

We are all called to live here in a loving expression of who we truly are. Answer your Heart's Inner call, it's time to wake up.

Extend your own loving hand to your self, and learn to use your traumas and fears as powerful catalysts for evolution and freedom of the mind, the heart and the soul.

Together we can:
  • Ask for Divine help, recognize you are not alone on this blessed journey within. Allow yourself to be supported at the deepest levels.
  • Learn how to uncover your Sorrows hold on your heart and access freedom from that which haunts you, runs your actions and seemingly recreates the same drama or sense of dread in your NOW and in thoughts of your future.
  • Honour your truth as it emerges, allow yourself to be who you are and wherever you are now with no judgment. Offer a path for release and forgiveness.
  • Transform trauma into opportunities to love and understand yourself deeply and to evolve your soul's journey.
  • Heal your wounds with your own loving intention. Learn to hold a space for loving possibility to fill your life.
  • Open to your Heart's Inner Wisdom and your Authentic Self. Develop the connection to your own higher guidance.
  • Build your life from a faithful place of healing and loving awareness. The honoured and healed YOU wants very different things than the YOU living in fear and discomfort.

Your life's struggles are not a barometer of your worth, but rather an expression of patterns and non-supporting beliefs. Get clear on your value, go deeper into your potential and your truth, and step powerfully into your life!

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